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Harm OCD

What if I did harm to myself or someone else? How do I know I’m not a murderer? Am I capable of harming another person? What if I snap, lose control, and hurt someone I love?


Do you:

  • Avoid driving in fear of turning the wheel and hurting yourself or others?

  • Avoid places where you might “snap” and hurt someone (e.g., subway platforms)?

  • Avoid being around or using knives or other sharp objects?

  • Avoid family members or close friends, in fear of acting on your thoughts and hurting them?

  • Reassure yourself over and over that you would never be capable of harming anyone you care about?  

  • Read stories of people who “snapped,” and anxiously compare yourself to them?

Pedophile OCD

How do I know I’m not a pedophile? Did I look at that child the wrong way? Did I stare at that baby for too long? Have I been hiding my true nature from myself this entire time? How can I be 100% sure I am not a pedophile?


Do you:

  • Avoid places with lots of children (e.g., parks, schools, toy stores, the beach)? 

  • Avoid looking at children on the street or deliberately look at children to "test" yourself?  

  • Anxiously check for arousal when in the presence of children?

  • Avoid or feel highly anxious being around your children or family members’ children?

  • Avoid television shows or advertisements featuring children?

  • Confess your scary thoughts repeatedly to others?

  • Seek reassurance online to confirm that you are not a pedophile?

Sexual Orientation OCD

How can I be sure that I’m not gay (or straight, bisexual, etc)? How can I ever truly know my sexuality? Am I living a lie? Do I find that person on the street attractive? Did I feel aroused when I saw a picture of that model, or was it something else? What if I'm wrong about my sexual orientation and I end up devastating the people in my life?

Do you: 

  • Anxiously check for arousal when you look at people of the same or opposite sex?

  • Anxiously check for attraction when having sex with your partner or avoid physical intimacy entirely?

  • Read “coming out” stories and compare those stories to your own experience?

  • Seek reassurance from friends and family about your sexual orientation?

  • Mentally gather evidence in an effort to confirm your “true” sexual orientation?

  • Avoid being around people who are very open about their sexuality?


Relationship OCD

How do I know if I’m with the right person? What if I’m stuck with the wrong person and end up living a miserable life? Will I be bothered by my partner’s flaws forever? Do I find another person more attractive than my partner, and if so, what does that mean?

Do you: 

  • Compare your partner repeatedly to other people, to make sure that you are with the “right” person?

  • Mentally gather evidence for and against staying with your current partner?

  • Anxiously correct your partner or search for flaws to “confirm” that you are with the wrong person?

  • Search for hidden meaning in your partner’s facial expressions or words?

  • Seek reassurance from others about whether or not you are with the “right” person?

  • Frequently check to see if you are feeling “love” and whether that feeling of love is strong enough? 

  • Avoid romantic movies because they trigger incessant doubts about your relationship?

  • Avoid taking steps that would increase commitment (e.g., moving in together, marriage, etc.) because you can't find total certainty about how you feel?

Responsibility OCD

Did I make sure to turn off the stove? Did I leave something on the floor that my dog might choke on? What if the apartment burns down and it’s my fault? What if I get someone else sick because of my actions? What if someone trips on an object because I didn’t pick it up? What if something happens and I could have done something to prevent it? Did I hit someone with my car without realizing, leaving him or her dead in the street? 

Do you:

  • Repeatedly check to make sure that the environment is “safe” before you leave or before you sleep at night?

  • Go back to check on items that have been deemed “risky” (e.g., return home to make sure you definitely locked your door)?

  • Pick up items that you see on the street in case someone trips on them?

  • Excessively decontaminate yourself or other items to “protect” others?

  • Check your mirrors repeatedly or retrace your steps to make sure you didn’t hit anyone with your car? 

Suicidal OCD

How do I know I’m not suicidal? How do I know I won’t become suicidal?

Do you:

  • Mentally gather evidence for why you would or would not kill yourself? 

  • Avoid triggers that might make you feel sad or down?

  • Check constantly to see if you are feeling depressed?

  • Avoid knives, sharp objects, or other triggers for suicide (e.g., subway platforms, pill bottles, tall buildings)?

  • Read stories of people who are depressed and suicidal, and anxiously compare yourself to them?

  • Avoid being alone for fear you might act on these scary thoughts?

Just Right OCD

How am I going to be able to get started on this task if things feel off? What if I won’t be able to focus until I fix the symmetry or position of this object? Should I redo this action because it didn’t feel quite right the first time I did it? Will I keep feeling unbalanced until I complete the task perfectly in just the right way? What if something bad happens because I didn't do this in the correct way?

Do you:

  • Repeat an action or sequence of actions until it feels "just right?" 

  • Do things to try to achieve a sense of balance or symmetry?

  • Rearrange objects or adjust things in a space until it feels "right?"

  • Have to reread or rewrite something repeatedly until you feel like you understand it perfectly?

Health Anxiety/OCD

What if I have a terminal illness that is currently undetected? Could this feeling of pain in my stomach mean that I have colon cancer? Might that mole on my skin have started to change slightly, and should I call the doctor? Am I having an adverse side effect to this new medication?

Do you:

  • Frequently google physical symptoms to investigate if you could have an illness?

  • Monitor your bodily sensations closely (e.g., take vitals, inspect skin or other body parts, keep a log of symptoms)?

  • Reach out to doctors or others for reassurance about your health?

  • Do body scans to check how you are feeling and if anything feels off?

Moral Scrupulosity or Religious OCD

Am I a bad person? Was that thought I just had an indication that I am “bad”? How can I be sure my intentions are pure? What if I don’t really know my “true” intentions? Did I do the right thing? Did I commit an immoral act without realizing? What if I hurt another person with my actions and I’ll never know? Why did I have those “bad” thoughts about God or disturbing religious images? What if God has cursed me? How can I make sure that God does not misunderstand me? Am I perfectly complying with the tenets of my religion?  

Do you:

  • Repeatedly confess or seek reassurance to make sure you are morally “in the clear?” 

  • Rationalize to yourself why you are actually a “good” person? 

  • Mentally review past actions to “make sure” you acted appropriately? 

  • Replace "bad thoughts" with "good thoughts," or "bad images" with "good images"?

  • Apologize compulsively to others for potential past wrongdoing? 

  • Pray excessively, or repeatedly seek guidance from religious leaders to confirm that you have not been sinful? 

  • Comb your mind for any evidence of blasphemy and if found, repeatedly confess, seek forgiveness, and seek reassurance?

Sensorimotor/Hyperawareness OCD

Why can’t I stop thinking about my swallowing, my blinking, my heartbeat, my breathing--these processes used to be automatic and now I can’t stop thinking about them? What if I am always preoccupied by this sensation? What if I can only half pay attention during all of the important moments of my life because I’m focused on this sensation? What if I lose my mind or go crazy because I can’t stop thinking about this sensation? I have to empty out my whole bladder before leaving the house/going to sleep--what if I can’t focus or can’t sleep as a result of having the urge to urinate? 

Do you:

  • Check repeatedly to see if you are “still” thinking about sensation? 

  • Repeatedly compare how you feel now vs. how you felt before the hyperawareness started? 

  • Distract yourself as much as possible to avoid thinking about the sensation? 

  • Avoid situations, words, anything that might trigger you to “start” thinking about the sensation again? 

  • Stay on the toilet as long as possible to make sure that your bladder or bowels have been emptied “completely”?

Contamination OCD

How can I be sure that I am free of germs or other contaminants like bodily fluids? How can I keep my “home space” completely separate from the contamination of the outside world? How do I prevent myself from getting sick or feeling dirty? How do I know I won’t become extremely ill as a result of interacting with this public restroom?

Do you:

  • Excessively decontaminate yourself, your belongings, or other surfaces, or perform elaborate rituals with multiple steps to feel clean?

  • Track your movements and the movements of others to monitor the pathway of germ spread (eg., monitoring everything you touch, monitoring others’ hands or behaviors)?

  • Avoid items or places that you have deemed contaminated or filled with germs or tolerate these items or spaces with great distress?

  • Categorize items or areas as more or less contaminated, and spend a great deal of energy trying to maintain these categories?

  • Avoid “high contact” surfaces like doorknobs, elevator buttons, shaking hands, or subway poles?

Metaphysical Contamination OCD

What if that bad person’s essence rubs off on me? What if I take on the negative qualities of my horrible uncle by coming into contact with his items and it changes my whole personality? What if I contaminate these new clothes with "bad thoughts" and I can’t wear them anymore? If I breathe near this cemetery, will it bring death to myself and my loved ones? If I read about this triggering topic, will it bring bad energy into my day?

Do you:

  • Avoid people, places, or objects that you fear will contaminate you with their essence? 

  • Avoid saying certain words or phrases out loud?

  • Breathe out bad energy or exhale in a ritualized manner to avoid “taking in the bad energy?” 

  • Say phrases in your mind to neutralize or expel the threat, or to block another’s essence from intruding?

Other OCD fears 

  • Fear of losing things

  • Fear of forgetting/hoarding memories or information

  • Fear of losing impulse control (eg., blurting out something inappropriate or offensive, sending an email that you didn't mean to send, stealing items)

  • Fear of being misunderstood or a compulsive need to clarify that you were understood completely and correctly

  • Fear of certain numbers or colors

  • Existential OCD (e.g., obsessive thoughts about the meaning of life, my purpose, whether or not I actually exist)

  • Post-partum OCD 

  • Obsessive fixation on a past event

  • Intrusive violent or sexual images

  • Superstitious fears

  • Obsessive fixation on maximizing happiness and making all the best decisions in order to never have regrets or 'miss out'

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